Why do they keep their thoughts, fears and feelings bottled up until they explode all over the person they're trying to hide them from? More to the point, why do they try to hide them at all? A lot of angst would be saved if they just made a single comment/request at the beginning of any perceived problem before it escalates into all out war.
I know this is rather cryptic but I just had to put this out there into the universe to relieve some of my stress!
That feels better. OK, off to get ready for another day in the paradise that is Big W.